Being married to the same person for years can lack excitement so may be a reason why an extra-marital relationship is entered into. Here are some suggestions as to how you might rekindle the love within your marriage, make your partner long to be with you and strengthen your feelings for each other.

Draw two stick figures walking together under a smiling sun. Your partner will appreciate this distinctive gift.

If your drawing isn't faultless it doesn't really matter, but show that you have put some effort into making it look nice and beautiful. Don't forget to write your names above the figures. You should also draw a big heart and write inside it "I love you" or "I still love you".

Address an envelope with your partner's office and mark it as "Urgent". Place the drawings inside and ensure the envelope is sealed. It should be received by your partner at her office in the middle of a tiring and challenging day.

One summer evening, enjoy a picnic together. Bring some chocolates, snacks and champagne. As you enjoy the food, lie down on the blanket and gaze at sky.

Your partner will be astounded if you deliver a long stemmed rose to her door. A short message should be attached such as "Thank you for coming into my life".

Prepare a box in readiness for that special massage. You will need some massage oil, a sheet of colored tissue paper and a blank card in addition to a small decorated cardboard box. Arrange the tissue paper in the box. Arrange the massage items on a table and write on the card "Fancy a massage? Call this number now (your phone number)".

Remember childhood memories: Walk into the park with your partner and give her a swing.

Have fun with water: During the summer, buy two big water pistols and take them along with you to the beach. Give one to your partner and both of you should have a big water fight.

Discover what your partner always wished for when she was young. Whatever she tells you buy it on her birthday.